{"id":3555,"date":"2008-07-25T16:32:48","date_gmt":"2008-07-26T00:32:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3555"},"modified":"2008-07-25T16:32:48","modified_gmt":"2008-07-26T00:32:48","slug":"breaking-up-20","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3555","title":{"rendered":"Breaking Up 2.0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.jewcy.com\/post\/jewcy_guide_breaking\">From Jewcy<\/a>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>It&#8217;s Over, Sign Off (or At Least, Be Invisible):<\/strong> Who hasn&#8217;t sat and stared at their Buddy List, trying desperately to diagnose the emotional status of their significant other based on their idle times and away messages? If you can&#8217;t control yourself (or vice versa), remove your ex from your buddy list or block them altogether. You might also want to set yourself to invisible or stealth mode.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stop Refreshing:<\/strong> Also, stop emailing. 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