{"id":34757,"date":"2011-07-09T20:14:07","date_gmt":"2011-07-10T04:14:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=34757"},"modified":"2011-07-09T20:24:03","modified_gmt":"2011-07-10T04:24:03","slug":"the-brutal-truth-about-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=34757","title":{"rendered":"The Brutal Truth About Women"},"content":{"rendered":"

This essay is great stuff. Here’s a taste<\/a>:<\/p>\n

MYTH: Women want love and affection. Women want to be treated well. If you treat a woman well, she\u2019ll treat you well.<\/p>\n

TRUTH: Young women want whatever other young women want. They\u2019re herd creatures. If you lavish a woman with love and affection she\u2019ll think you\u2019re doing it because nobody else wants you (which may be true) and she\u2019ll dump you. In fact, if you do anything that betrays that you\u2019re a loser that other women won\u2019t touch, she\u2019ll dump you. Why? Because she wants to impress her friends with what a great catch she\u2019s made, and if she thinks that they wouldn\u2019t want you, then she doesn\u2019t want you either.
\nThere are only three exceptions to this rule. The first exception is psychos, otherwise known as \u201cwitches, bitches, and crazy ladies.\u201d They\u2019ll stay with you because nobody else wants them, or because you\u2019re the only one who put up with their abuse. The second exception is women who like to \u201cfix men up\u201d: those women who like to take \u201cbroken\u201d men and turn them into the man they want. These women are single because a mature man will recognize that these women don\u2019t want him\u2026 they want to turn him into someone else. The third exception is that once in a long time you meet a woman who isn\u2019t psycho, still wants to stay with you when she finds out that you\u2019re not super stud, and doesn\u2019t want to change you into someone else. This is the one you marry.
\nBITTER MYTH: Women are out for money.
\nTRUTH: Women are out for status and fun or for security, depending upon their age. A few women are out for cold cash, but not too many. Status-seeking women aren\u2019t ready to settle down. They just wanna have fun, and they want their girlfriends to know it. They\u2019re looking for a guy they can dangle in front of their friends and say, \u201cLook what I got!\u201d You don\u2019t have to have money to be that guy, you just have to come across as desirable. Of course if you have money you don\u2019t need to do anything else, but having no money isn\u2019t the end of the world. The women who are out for security have had their wild fling and want to settle down. They want a guy who can provide a stable base for the future (and that includes finances).<\/p>\n

MYTH: I should find one woman I like who likes me, and stick with her through thick and thin.
\nTRUTH: This is the biggest mistake I ever made. I used to be loyal to whomever I was with, even when someone better came along. All that happened was that I missed out on some great opportunities while I hung on with losers that ended up dumping me anyway. Do this if the two of you are getting married; once you\u2019ve tied the knot it\u2019s a whole other can of worms. However, if you\u2019re just dating, do exactly the opposite. In very subtle ways you have to let her know that although you like her, there are lots of other women out there and you still notice them. Glance at tits and legs. Smile at and chat with pretty ladies, even while she\u2019s with you (you\u2019re just being friendly, of course). This is the most important thing I\u2019ve learned about dating in a decade. I even thought of dating WASP bitches again, so long as I could keep this in mind. Never, never let her know that she\u2019s the only game in town. As soon as she believes that she\u2019s your \u201ceverything,\u201d she\u2019ll start whining and bitching and making demands.
\nThink of it like buying a car. If you let the salesman know that this is your dream car, that you\u2019ve stayed awake nights thinking about buying exactly this car, do you think the price will go down? Of course not! He\u2019ll jack the price up as high as he thinks he can go and still have you buy it. If you tell your girl that you\u2019ve dreamed all of your life of going out with someone like her, do you think she\u2019ll smile and kiss you and things will go on as before? Of course not! She\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ll put up with more of her bad habits, and that she can put up with fewer of yours, and the bitching will start. She\u2019ll try to make the relationship as comfortable for her as possible and still keep it going. Remember the car salesman? Remember the attitude that \u201cthis is a nice car, but there are hundreds of other great ones, including that one across the street\u201d, even as your heart is thumping and you\u2019re practically drooling? If you\u2019re just dating, this is the attitude to take.
\n…Second, and more important, women want to maintain the self-delusion that they already understand men. Women everywhere claim that they understand men and that \u201cmen are simple creatures.\u201d The truth is that women haven\u2019t a clue where most men are coming from and furthermore they care only insofar as they want to control us. Nonetheless, they want to maintain the fiction that they have us figured out.
\nIt\u2019s a pride and status thing. A woman who doesn\u2019t \u201cunderstand\u201d her man can\u2019t control him, and a woman who can\u2019t control her man is a loser. The more you try to explain yourself, the more complex and multi-dimensional you become (a.k.a. \u201cdifficult\u201d), and the less she can claim to understand you.
\n…TRUTH: Women never stop complaining. For them, it\u2019s a sport. Some complain more than others, but none of them will ever stop, any more than one day men will stop discussing football. Men have built civilizations, created law, invented husbandry (that\u2019s keeping domestic animals by the way, not marriage; women invented marriage), built skyscrapers, invented cars, washing machines, antibiotics, toilets, computers, and microwave ovens, and generally dragged us out of caves and into condos. Don\u2019t kid yourself: men did it all. If it were up to women we\u2019d still be living in caves and dying at 20. I know that men did it all because I know why they did it: they hoped that it would stop women complaining. It didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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