{"id":3309,"date":"2008-06-25T19:41:57","date_gmt":"2008-06-26T03:41:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3309"},"modified":"2008-06-27T07:42:39","modified_gmt":"2008-06-27T15:42:39","slug":"the-rules-of-the-game-for-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=3309","title":{"rendered":"The Rules of the Game For Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a part-time job picking up kids from daycare and bringing them home to their loving parents.<\/p>\n<p>Because I believe that our every minute is a gift from HaShem, I always carry a book wherever I go. So through all the childish foolishness I&#8217;m continually improving my mind and setting a good example for the next generation.<\/p>\n<p>The other day I was reading The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss.<\/p>\n<p>I have no personal use for pick-up books. 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