{"id":31159,"date":"2011-03-21T12:53:17","date_gmt":"2011-03-21T20:53:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=31159"},"modified":"2011-03-21T12:53:17","modified_gmt":"2011-03-21T20:53:17","slug":"converting-to-orthodox-judaism-is-hard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=31159","title":{"rendered":"Converting To Orthodox Judaism Is Hard"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How come a lot of people &#8212; maybe most people &#8212; don&#8217;t find converting to Orthodox Judaism more difficult than getting an AA degree from a community college? I think it depends a lot on a person&#8217;s temperament. You can take the process as a tremendous burden or you can enjoy it. It&#8217;s up to you.<\/p>\n<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.frumsatire.net\/2011\/03\/21\/converting-to-judaism-is-hard\/\">From FrumSatire.net<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s awful that my life is on hold for 2 years. That I can\u2019t date. That I can\u2019t move. That I can\u2019t be a part of my old community but I am not allowed to really be a part of the one I am in (though I\u2019m told I need to be in order to finish the conversion). I can\u2019t even travel as much as I\u2019d like because I need to be \u201caround\u201d for shabbos.<\/p>\n<p>It sucks to have to explain to everyone new that I meet that I am converting and why. It sucks to hear everyone tells me that I\u2019m crazy. Yes, they actually say that. Over and over I hear that. It gets old after a while.<\/p>\n<p>It irks me to be asked to donate money to the shul. Sure, I\u2019ve been attending for a few years now. But its not my problem they won\u2019t let me be a member. I\u2019d be happy to pay dues, volunteer, sponsor a kuddush\u2026 But don\u2019t ask me to give money to a group that doesn\u2019t want me yet.<\/p>\n<p>Yet. That\u2019s the real kicker. They are going to finish this conversion eventually. I\u2019ve even been given a timeline (we are down to just a few months now). So what are they waiting for? For me to put on a pair of jeans and eat a cheeseburger? Already happened! For me to tell them how much I hate everything about them and this process? Already happened. And after all that, they said \u201cWe want you. You are special and would make an amazing addition to this community\u201d. So, what are you waiting for.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How come a lot of people &#8212; maybe most people &#8212; don&#8217;t find converting to Orthodox Judaism more difficult than getting an AA degree from a community college? I think it depends a lot on a person&#8217;s temperament. You can &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=31159\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[228,18],"tags":[19548,25895,4216,1132,809],"class_list":["post-31159","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-conversion","category-orthodoxy","tag-aa-degree","tag-cheeseburger","tag-kicker","tag-orthodox-judaism","tag-shabbos"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31159","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=31159"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31159\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=31159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=31159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=31159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}