On his radio show Friday, Dennis Prager said: Life consists overwhelmingly of have-tos and the quicker you make peace with that, the happier your life will be. <\/p>\n
People think that the fewer have-tos the better.<\/p>\n
Some psychologists have the credo that there should be no shoulds in your life.<\/p>\n
[In my experience of therapy, this is not in moral issues so much as in your expectations for yourself and from life. It is silly to wail, Joe should not treat me this way. I should be stronger. I should not feel sad, etc.]<\/p>\n
If you don’t want a life of have-tos, you need to not marry, to not have kids, and to be born into wealth, or to be taken care of by somebody. I don’t think such a person will be happy.<\/p>\n
Have-tos bring good things — money, family, a life. You build something. How do you build something without have-tos?<\/p>\n
In person, Dennis Prager tends to be more low key and goofy than his talk show<\/a>. He loves to hug. \u201cI\u2019ve always hugged guys and never felt the slightest degree of self-consciousness. I hug gay friends. I don\u2019t have the slightest degree of self-consciousness. I don\u2019t get that.\u201d (Radio show, March 26, 2010)<\/p>\n Said Dennis in a 1995 lecture on Exodus 7: \u201cIf I may be vivid, which I am known for being, I was in an airport bathroom recently and in the stall next to me, the guy was making a lot of noises. It was very touching because after about the fourth, he says, \u2018Excuse me, I\u2019m sorry.\u2019 And I in my stall yell back, \u2018It\u2019s a bathroom. You do not have to be sorry.\u2019 If he had done it in line at Delta, that would be a different story. That\u2019s what makes civilization possible.\u201d<\/p>\n Said Dennis on his show Oct. 7, 2010: \u201cThere is no joy in me describing bad things. I\u2019m a happy-go-lucky guy. I like to think nice things about everybody.\u201d<\/p>\n Said Dennis on his show Jan. 7, 2010: \u201cIf we only did what we wanted to do, I don\u2019t think we would be happy. I wouldn\u2019t. If all I did was what I wanted to do, I would\u2019ve wasted my life. I don\u2019t mean drugs or alcohol or anything like that. I would\u2019ve just engaged in my fun hobbies \u2014 spent today at a camera store, the next day at a stereo store, the next day test out new pens at the pen store. Didn\u2019t I do all that this week? I did.<\/p>\n \u201cI told my stepson the other day, \u2018I am a very lazy man who has conquered it, not by changing his nature, by taking on at an early age an enormous number of have-tos. Have-tos have made my life possible. They have brought me the most happiness.\u201d<\/p>\n Said Dennis on his show Dec. 31, 2010: \u201cWhen you are a public figure, everything you do is scrutinized\u2026 I accept it. I try to act honorably at all times. It is doubly triply quadruply true for a public figure who speaks on moral issues because people want you to measure up. There are some who want you to fail\u2026<\/p>\n \u201cI speak to everybody. I am one of the only lecturers I know who stays in almost every instance, I stay until the last person has spoken to me. I often stay for as long after a speech as my speech was just to answer people\u2019s questions.<\/p>\n \u201cI particularly love when young people come to my lectures and particularly love to engage with them.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWe who engage in ideas ache for the next generation to know of our ideas because then we know they will go on.\u201d<\/p>\n On a radio broadcast to a crowd June 10, 2010, Dennis said: \u201cThe single greatest battle I have on a show is not what to say, or what\u2019s in the news, or what if it\u2019s a slow days, it\u2019s not to fool around for three hours. I am the goofiest person you have ever met. It is massive self-control to be as serious as I am for these three hours, and it doesn\u2019t always work, which drives him (producer Allen Estrin) nuts.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" On his radio show Friday, Dennis Prager said: Life consists overwhelmingly of have-tos and the quicker you make peace with that, the happier your life will be. People think that the fewer have-tos the better. Some psychologists have the credo … Continue reading