Stylelife emails his list:<\/p>\n
An IOI is something a woman does (maybe even subconsciously) to show you that she’s interested in you as more than just a friend…get my drift?<\/p>\n
I won’t spell out every IOI for you but here’s a small list so you get
\na general idea:<\/p>\n
1. She makes prolonged eye contact with you.<\/p>\n
2. She touches you in a playful. A tap on the arm, friendly punch to
\nthe shoulder or joking hip check.<\/p>\n
3. She fixes her hair or other aspects of her appearance in your
\npresence.<\/p>\n
4. She tries to insert herself into the conversation you’re having
\nwith other people in the set or if the conversation with you dies she
\nre-starts it.<\/p>\n
5. She’s willing to do simple things you ask her to do: “Here hold
\nthis cup.” or “Switch places with me, you stand here.”<\/p>\n
6. She laughs at your jokes even when no one else does.<\/p>\n
7. She doesn’t want you to leave.<\/p>\n
The key with IOIs is to notice them and to act accordingly. What does
\nthat mean exactly you ask? Well, if a woman is showing you she’s
\nattracted to you then you can start escalating things to the next level
\nchief. Doesn’t that sound like fun?<\/p>\n
My rule of thumb is to notice 3-4 IOIs then to begin to work on
\nescalation, namely isolating the target to build comfort. So, it may
\ntake you some time to get out of your head about saying and
\nperforming your Openers, DHVs, and DQs for you to also be able to
\nkeep track of IOIs but eventually this is the point to sarging often.
\nThat’s why us pro PUAs like to run the same material over and over
\nagain because it allows us to be able to focus on other things like
\ncounting IOIs.<\/p>\n
…You already have this girl interested in you so now you need to get to know
\nher. Ask her broad open ended questions: “What are your passions? What are you
\nall about? You seem different from these other women in this place, what makes
\nyou special?” I think you get the idea. If she starts talking and doesn’t stop that’s
\na great sign. Your job now is to listen intently and look into her eyes.<\/p>\n
Easy Peasy, right?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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