{"id":2349,"date":"2008-02-27T04:43:15","date_gmt":"2008-02-27T12:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=2349"},"modified":"2008-02-27T07:45:48","modified_gmt":"2008-02-27T15:45:48","slug":"youre-not-a-member-of-a-community-until-people-gossip-about-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=2349","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Not A Member Of A Community Until People Gossip About You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was studying the Holiness Code in Leviticus 19 this week through the 18th? Century work Sefer Ha Chinuch (Book of Education).<\/p>\n<p>It argues against gossip because it destroys communal bonds and social peace.<\/p>\n<p>Yet a sociologist would argue you are not regarded as a member of the community until people gossip about you. 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