{"id":21547,"date":"2010-07-22T10:45:08","date_gmt":"2010-07-22T18:45:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=21547"},"modified":"2010-07-22T10:45:08","modified_gmt":"2010-07-22T18:45:08","slug":"this-could-hurt-your-orthodox-marriage-prospects","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=21547","title":{"rendered":"This Could Hurt Your Orthodox Marriage Prospects"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.frumsatire.net\/2010\/07\/22\/items-that-may-hurt-your-shidduch-market-value\/#more-6197\">Heshy Fried writes<\/a>: Facebook: Unless you are a kiruv rabbi, you have no excuse to be on facebook. If you happen to be on facebook you may want to make sure that you are fans of gedolim and kosher Jewish music and that none of your friends are of the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<p>Saw You At Sinai: Sure everyone knows someone who got married from saw you at Sinai, but we know those people were desperate enough to throw away their shidduch market value by not having true emunah and going to the treife zachen of the internet. Being forced to put up a picture that could be copied by anyone you are set up with is terribly unztnius.<\/p>\n<p>Color: Do you wear any color besides gray, blue or black? You\u2019re in trouble then.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heshy Fried writes: Facebook: Unless you are a kiruv rabbi, you have no excuse to be on facebook. 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