{"id":17519,"date":"2010-03-05T16:00:04","date_gmt":"2010-03-06T00:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=17519"},"modified":"2010-03-05T16:02:04","modified_gmt":"2010-03-06T00:02:04","slug":"whats-essential-to-you-is-usually-peripheral-to-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=17519","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s Essential To You Is Usually Peripheral To Others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I often get people emailing in about blog posts and videos I&#8217;ve made. They want changes. They have corrections. They think I&#8217;ve been unfair. They offer feedback.<\/p>\n<p>What they don&#8217;t have, most of the time, is a link to the blog post or video in question.<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t realize that the blog post they&#8217;ve been worrying about is not on my mind. They act as though what absorbs them absorbs me too.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why rules of social engagement are important. When I deal with smart cultured people, they usually include links to what they&#8217;re talking about because they&#8217;ve been educated that what is important to you is often peripheral to others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I often get people emailing in about blog posts and videos I&#8217;ve made. They want changes. They have corrections. They think I&#8217;ve been unfair. They offer feedback. What they don&#8217;t have, most of the time, is a link to the &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=17519\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[21583],"class_list":["post-17519","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","tag-social-engagement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17519","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17519"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17519\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17522,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17519\/revisions\/17522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17519"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17519"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17519"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}