{"id":1751,"date":"2007-12-18T09:00:28","date_gmt":"2007-12-18T15:48:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1751"},"modified":"2007-12-18T09:08:57","modified_gmt":"2007-12-18T15:56:57","slug":"crown-heights-receding-hemlines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1751","title":{"rendered":"Crown Heights’ receding hemlines"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n

Returning to Chabad headquarters in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, for a Shabbat is an exhilarating experience. Lubavitchers are arguably the most alive people in the world and there is a pulse and electricity in the air that can scarcely be found anywhere else.<\/p>\n

What I did not expect, however, was to be approached by a large number of young rabbinical students of marriageable age who wanted counseling as to how to overcome their obsession with a woman’s looks on dates. Some of the young men who approached me had dated upwards of 40 women and had been instantly dismissive if she wasn’t a beauty.<\/p>\n

Mind you, these were not bums. Most were outstanding young scholars, deeply religious, serious about their rabbinical degrees, and desirous of going, right after marriage, to the far corners of the world to spread Judaism. But in the area of dating they had absorbed the shallow mores of the mainstream culture. They judged a woman primarily by her appearance.<\/p>\n

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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach writes: Returning to Chabad headquarters in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, for a Shabbat is an exhilarating experience. Lubavitchers are arguably the most alive people in the world and there is a pulse and electricity in the air that … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[575,210,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1751","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-beauty","category-dating","category-orthodoxy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t