{"id":1738,"date":"2007-12-17T16:18:57","date_gmt":"2007-12-17T23:06:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1738"},"modified":"2007-12-17T16:21:53","modified_gmt":"2007-12-17T23:09:53","slug":"they-still-call-me-bruce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1738","title":{"rendered":"They Still Call Me Bruce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.timesonline.co.uk\/tol\/life_and_style\/men\/article2976222.ece\">The Times of London is covering this big story (speed seduction is a big deal in the UK, Australia and around the world, the movement started in Southern California)<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>Strauss has responded, too: <em>The Game<\/em> was partly a journalistic expos&eacute; of a secret society, but it could also be read as a self-help book. His latest work, <em>The Rules of the Game<\/em>, is more a Hayne&rsquo;s manual of seduction, a step-by-step guide to building a love life.<\/p>\n<p>The author has mixed feelings about the industry that he has helped to create. When he attended the very first pick-up seminar, &ldquo;You could count the gurus on one hand,&rdquo; he says. &ldquo;Now every domain name with the word &lsquo;alpha&rsquo; in it has been taken up. It&rsquo;s a very young industry. There is still no assurance of quality with some of these guys.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>The current boom will, he predicts, either prove &ldquo;a blip on the pop culture radar&rdquo;, or the beginning of &ldquo;a new self-improvement movement, rather like the fitness industry&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Ross Jeffries, the man whom Strauss and every other &ldquo;guru&rdquo; acknowledges as the father of the modern seduction movement, believes there is a huge secondary market that is yet to be tapped. &ldquo;At the moment,&rdquo; Jeffries says, the seduction market is chiefly &ldquo;guys who can&rsquo;t get women at all&rdquo;. The huge secondary market he foresees is &ldquo;guys who want to trade up&hellip; guys who are living with women they are not attracted to and have to talk themselves into staying with&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Jeffries had been a para-legal and then, as he puts it, &ldquo;an awful comedy writer&rdquo;, the man responsible for the 1987 film <em>They Still Call Me Bruce<\/em>. In 1988, after a long period of contemplation in the romantic wilderness, he emerged like John the Baptist, to herald the salvation of all lonely men with a technique he called &ldquo;Speed Seduction&rdquo;. It used neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), the principle that a person&rsquo;s subconscious can be manipulated through words, suggestions and physical gestures. Needless to say, it was highly controversial: to some it appeared little better than a date-rape drug. Jeffries says it is setting women free of social controls that tell them that a certain man is not their type.<\/p>\n<p><!--adsense--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Times of London is covering this big story (speed seduction is a big deal in the UK, Australia and around the world, the movement started in Southern California): Strauss has responded, too: The Game was partly a journalistic expos&eacute; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1738\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[210],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1738","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1738"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1738\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1738"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1738"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1738"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}