{"id":1691,"date":"2007-12-11T17:00:36","date_gmt":"2007-12-11T23:48:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1691"},"modified":"2007-12-11T17:08:37","modified_gmt":"2007-12-11T23:56:37","slug":"she%e2%80%99s-got-a-boyfriend%e2%80%a6hooray-hooray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=1691","title":{"rendered":"She"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/laist.com\/2007\/12\/10\/shes_got_a_boyfriend.php\">Ross Jeffries writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>As I have often said to my Speed Seduction&reg; students (yes, disclosure, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ross_Jeffries#Speed_Seduction\">I teach this<\/a>), one of the key axioms for success with women (however you might define that for yourself) is this:<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;You should seldom take a woman&rsquo;s first response to you as written in stone. It&rsquo;s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling and perceiving in that moment, and is almost always subject to change&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>All humans, male and female, run much of our lives on autopilot. Our responses are seldom deeply felt or thoroughly thought through. They are just what we&rsquo;ve gotten into the habit of doing.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to dealing with the blizzard of stupidity that most men inflict on attractive women&#8211; in an attempt to get into their panties&#8211;is it any wonder women have standardized responses that may not reflect their real situation? And is it any wonder that their real situation, e.g. actually having a boyfriend, may not reflect what would really please and fulfill them?<\/p>\n<p>A mentor of mine once said, &ldquo;Women are monkey-branchers. A monkey won&rsquo;t let go completely of one branch until she has her hand firmly gripping on the next one.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>That guy was right.  And he got laid.  A lot.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to sleep with much younger women then you definitely do NOT want to be the boyfriend. 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