We usually find other people’s opinions obnoxious because they are underlain by a smug superior attitude of — I know more than you!<\/p>\n
If I didn’t feel this, I wouldn’t blog or livestream as much.<\/p>\n
I’ve been watching Youtube videos on how to communicate more effectively on Youtube. This bloke Alexander said you should go into your performance with as low a cognitive load as possible so you can afford to be most in the moment, and before you begin, get clear on what you are thinking and feeling and try to distill it down to one or two things, and then speak from that place. <\/p>\n
If I don’t feel I have something important to impart, I wouldn’t share as much online. <\/p>\n
While I might usually feel some version of more-than-my-audience, sometimes I feel distinctively less-than-my-audience. That’s when I’m in my vulnerable porous identity. When I feel superior, it means I’m in my disciplined buffered identity.<\/p>\n