{"id":162414,"date":"2025-07-27T07:06:11","date_gmt":"2025-07-27T15:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=162414"},"modified":"2025-07-27T07:06:11","modified_gmt":"2025-07-27T15:06:11","slug":"all-men-are-incels-the-bitter-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=162414","title":{"rendered":"All men are incels: the bitter truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/t6xYHK3lrnk?si=oOlnOerDpqvhj06Z\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h2>All Men Are Incels: The Bitter Truth<\/h2>\n<p><em>By Dr. Orion Taraban | <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=t6xYHK3lrnk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Watch the full episode on YouTube<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s talk about something uncomfortable\u2014but real: all men are incels. Provocative? Sure. But accurate. Let me explain why.<\/p>\n<h3>What is an Incel?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Incel<\/strong> = <em>Involuntarily Celibate<\/em>: A man who wants sex but can\u2019t find a willing partner. Today, the term is mostly used as a slur\u2014especially against men who disagree with women. Somehow, incel and misogynist have become interchangeable. That\u2019s nonsense.<\/p>\n<h3>Every Man Has Been an Incel<\/h3>\n<p>No man is <em>universally<\/em> attractive. Not even celebrities, not even Greek gods. Rejection is a universal male experience. And when that happens\u2014when desire is blocked without consent\u2014you are, at that moment, involuntarily celibate. Even the most successful men strike out sometimes.<\/p>\n<p>To put it bluntly: <strong>if there was ever a man who wasn\u2019t an incel, it was probably Genghis Khan.<\/strong> And not because women loved him\u2014but because he didn\u2019t take no for an answer.<\/p>\n<h3>The Moral Fork in the Road<\/h3>\n<p>When a man is rejected, there are only two outcomes:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>He respects the no \u2192 He\u2019s celibate, involuntarily.<\/li>\n<li>He forces the issue \u2192 She becomes involuntarily sexual.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>We all agree the first is better. So why insult the man who takes the high road? Why mock restraint? Because that\u2019s what incel-shaming really is: punishment for <strong>not violating others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Respecting Consent is the Foundation of Civil Society<\/h3>\n<p>When a man chooses to accept rejection instead of imposing his will, he\u2019s doing the right thing. He\u2019s choosing law over force. That deserves some basic respect\u2014not ridicule.<\/p>\n<p>Mocking incels for \u201cnot getting any\u201d is like mocking a poor man outside a luxury store for not being able to afford anything. Tasteless, counterproductive, and asking for trouble. Just ask Marie Antoinette.<\/p>\n<h3>Women Are Gatekeepers By Convention, Not Nature<\/h3>\n<p>Consent is upheld by social agreement, not biology. The average man is physically stronger than the average woman. So it\u2019s <strong>civilization<\/strong>\u2014not nature\u2014that gives women the power to say no and have it matter.<\/p>\n<p>This social contract\u2014Hobbes\u2019s Leviathan\u2014is built on mutual respect and restraint. When a man abides by that, he\u2019s playing his part in civil society. That matters.<\/p>\n<h3>Disrespecting Restraint Breeds Resentment<\/h3>\n<p>Insulting men for doing the right thing creates bitterness. It\u2019s a recipe for alienation. We don\u2019t need to put these men on pedestals\u2014but <strong>mocking them for not violating others is peak stupidity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>Final Thoughts<\/h3>\n<p>So yes\u2014all men are incels, some of the time. Even rich, powerful, attractive ones. The difference isn\u2019t who gets rejected. It\u2019s how men choose to respond. Respect the men who choose law, not force. That\u2019s who keeps society from slipping into chaos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2013 Dr. Orion Taraban<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr>\n<h4>Further Resources<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.oriontaraban.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dr. Orion Taraban&#8217;s website<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Value-Others-Economics-Intersexual-Relationships\/dp\/B0BCHB4KTR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Value of Others \u2013 Book<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@PsycHacks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PsycHacks YouTube Channel<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.oriontaraban.com\/newsletter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Free Weekly Newsletter<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.oriontaraban.com\/consulting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1:1 Consultations<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.oriontaraban.com\/captains-quarters\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Captain&#8217;s Quarters Community<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All Men Are Incels: The Bitter Truth By Dr. Orion Taraban | Watch the full episode on YouTube Let\u2019s talk about something uncomfortable\u2014but real: all men are incels. 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