{"id":157889,"date":"2024-11-19T16:54:44","date_gmt":"2024-11-20T00:54:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=157889"},"modified":"2024-11-21T06:16:38","modified_gmt":"2024-11-21T14:16:38","slug":"everything-you-wanted-to-know-about-cottaging-but-were-afraid-to-ask-11-19-20","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=157889","title":{"rendered":"Everything You Wanted To Know About Cottaging But Were Afraid To Ask (11-19-20)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nIo__tRZLjw?si=nJ_FhRbNomUOg5Tp\" title=\"YouTube video player\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Click to play at 01:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#60\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"60\">01:00<\/a> &#8220;It always surprises me&#8230; how little compassion is shown for those forced to have sex in toilets. Being gay, wanting closeness despite a time when that was frowned on, is not a crime.&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/national\/i-took-on-alan-jones-i-survived-but-the-backlash-terrified-me-20241118-p5krn3.html\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/national\/i-took-on-alan-jones-i-survived-but-the-backlash-terrified-me-20241118-p5krn3.html<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 09:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#540\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"540\">09:00<\/a> Joe Biden signs off on Ukraine using American missiles to attack Russia, increasing our risk for nuclear war<br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 13:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#780\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"780\">13:00<\/a> MEN who visit toilets for gay sex, <a href=\"https:\/\/forums.digitalspy.com\/discussion\/1125879\/men-who-visit-toilets-for-gay-sex\/p9\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/forums.digitalspy.com\/discussion\/1125879\/men-who-visit-toilets-for-gay-sex\/p9<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 15:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#900\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"900\">15:00<\/a> UCLA toilet sex, <a href=\"https:\/\/dailybruin.com\/2007\/04\/25\/emtheres_more_casual_sex_you_may_thinkem\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/dailybruin.com\/2007\/04\/25\/emtheres_more_casual_sex_you_may_thinkem<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 16:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#960\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"960\">16:00<\/a> How did toilet cruising work?, <a href=\"https:\/\/ask.metafilter.com\/276076\/How-did-toilet-cruising-work\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/ask.metafilter.com\/276076\/How-did-toilet-cruising-work<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 17:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#1020\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"1020\">17:00<\/a> Why do so many gay men still go cruising and cottaging?, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attitude.co.uk\/culture\/sexuality\/why-do-so-many-gay-men-still-go-cruising-and-cottaging-293683\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/www.attitude.co.uk\/culture\/sexuality\/why-do-so-many-gay-men-still-go-cruising-and-cottaging-293683\/<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 18:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#1080\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"1080\">18:00<\/a> Investigation of motivational and behavioural factors influencing men who have sex with other men in public toilets (cottaging), <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/8218468\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/8218468\/<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 19:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#1140\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"1140\">19:00<\/a> With the increased acceptance of homosexuality in the US, why is \u201ccruising\u201d for anonymous sex in public restrooms and parks still so popular for many gay\/bi males?, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/With-the-increased-acceptance-of-homosexuality-in-the-US-why-is-cruising-for-anonymous-sex-in-public-restrooms-and-parks-still-so-popular-for-many-gay-bi-males?top_ans=268693603\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/www.quora.com\/With-the-increased-acceptance-of-homosexuality-in-the-US-why-is-cruising-for-anonymous-sex-in-public-restrooms-and-parks-still-so-popular-for-many-gay-bi-males?top_ans=268693603<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 20:00\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#1200\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"1200\">20:00<\/a> This Is Why Men Meet For Sex In Public Toilets, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/patrickstrudwick\/men-are-still-meeting-for-sex-in-public-toilets-and-the\" rel=\"nofollow\">https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/patrickstrudwick\/men-are-still-meeting-for-sex-in-public-toilets-and-the<\/a><br \/><a title=\"Click to play at 20:40\" class=\"ln-clickable-timestamp\" href=\"#1240\" data-action=\"episode-seek-audio\" data-timestamp=\"1240\">20:40<\/a> Trump &amp; 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