If you have strong bonds, if you have children, I don’t believe you are numbing out and I don’t believe you lack meaning and I don’t believe you have the following problems.<\/p>\n
What kind of person with children to support practices quiet quitting?<\/p>\n
Catherine Shannon wrote<\/a>: <\/p>\n Life has gotten very chaotic incredibly quickly. It has become increasingly difficult to parse anything from the static. People started coping with this lack of meaning through a kind of ironic detachment (which is very much still around), but it has matured into a pervasive cultural apathy, a permeating numbness. This isn\u2019t nihilism per se. (Even nihilists have a sincere belief system; they just sincerely believe that life is meaningless.) What we\u2019re dealing with is worse than nihilism. People are checking out of life in their 20s and 30s without reaching any profound conclusions about the point of it all.<\/p>\n \u201cPeople are so worn down,\u201d my friend told me on a recent phone call. She\u2019s right: there\u2019s a real lack of palpable ambition and vitality these days, a stunning lack of life force in the world. Another friend told me that \u201cthis has been going on for so long that people wouldn\u2019t know meaning if it walked up and bit them in the ass.\u201d It\u2019s true\u2014so many of the things that once gave the average person\u2019s life real meaning are now treated with sarcasm and contempt: college is a waste of money, work is a waste of your life, getting married is just a piece of paper, having kids is a nightmare, family is a burden, hobbies are merely quaint, earnestly expressing yourself is cringe, leaving the house is exhausting, religion is for idiots, the list goes on. If you allow yourself to internalize this perspective, eventually everything becomes a dumb joke.<\/p>\n We\u2019re so saturated in this environment that people are not only numbing out, they\u2019re kind of making a spectacle of it: from TikTok\u2019s \u201cquiet quitting\u201d trend to Vetements entire \u201cironic\u201d aesthetic. You know it\u2019s bad when the corporations get on board. The detachment is so widespread that most companies don\u2019t even have the genuine confidence to market their own products. Everything is delivered with a wink from one eye and an eye-roll from the other. We live in a mud puddle of memes, ironic hot takes, and self-conscious self-reference.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" If you have strong bonds, if you have children, I don’t believe you are numbing out and I don’t believe you lack meaning and I don’t believe you have the following problems. What kind of person with children to support … Continue reading