{"id":14999,"date":"2009-12-23T23:14:02","date_gmt":"2009-12-24T07:14:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=14999"},"modified":"2009-12-23T23:14:02","modified_gmt":"2009-12-24T07:14:02","slug":"got-a-phone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=14999","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Got A Phone #?&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That was the header on one email I got today.<\/p>\n<p>And what was in the body of the email? Nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some etiquette tips for when you email strangers asking for things. First of all, introduce yourself. Then say something about how you came to be sending this email. 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