{"id":14284,"date":"2009-12-15T09:53:16","date_gmt":"2009-12-15T17:53:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=14284"},"modified":"2009-12-15T09:53:16","modified_gmt":"2009-12-15T17:53:16","slug":"passionate-marriage-love-sex-and-intimacy-in-emotionally-committed-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=14284","title":{"rendered":"Passionate marriage: love, sex and intimacy in emotionally committed relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Two therapists have recommended <A HREF=\"http:\/\/search.barnesandnoble.com\/Passionate-Marriage\/David-Schnarch\/e\/9780805058260\">this book<\/a> to me.<\/p>\n<p>I think of sex as being more fun in uncommitted relationships. It is easier to look at the other person as a sexual object. When you get into a committed relationship, you get an awareness that the other person is more than just groovy genitals, and that tends to detract from their being an object.<\/p>\n<p>Sex has never struck me as a particularly loving act. It&#8217;s more frantic.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two therapists have recommended this book to me. I think of sex as being more fun in uncommitted relationships. It is easier to look at the other person as a sexual object. When you get into a committed relationship, you &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=14284\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[13944,20415,20416,20414,20417],"class_list":["post-14284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sex","tag-genitals","tag-loving-act","tag-object-sex","tag-passionate-marriage","tag-sexual-object"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14284"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14285,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14284\/revisions\/14285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}