{"id":13961,"date":"2009-12-09T09:27:42","date_gmt":"2009-12-09T17:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=13961"},"modified":"2009-12-09T09:27:42","modified_gmt":"2009-12-09T17:27:42","slug":"the-disposable-single-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=13961","title":{"rendered":"The Disposable Single Man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m reading a book about mercenaries in Iraq called <A HREF=\"http:\/\/www.bigboyrules.com\/\">Big Boy Rules<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>On page 83, the author Steve Fainaru writes: &#8220;Sometimes Cote would say it didn&#8217;t really matter if something happened to him, because he didn&#8217;t have a wife, or kids, or anyone he was responsible for.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I think almost every single man feels this frequently &#8212; disposable. It makes your hold on life more tenuous.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m reading a book about mercenaries in Iraq called Big Boy Rules. 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