{"id":13955,"date":"2009-12-08T22:45:02","date_gmt":"2009-12-09T06:45:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=13955"},"modified":"2009-12-09T08:25:06","modified_gmt":"2009-12-09T16:25:06","slug":"a-good-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=13955","title":{"rendered":"A Good Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I once offered to give part of my lung to a dying boy,&#8221; he told her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why would you do that?&#8221; she asked. &#8220;That&#8217;s serious. Please don&#8217;t ever do that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wanted to prove I was a good person,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I wanted to repair a broken friendship and to restore myself to my shul. I wanted to save the boy. I knew him.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8221;ve long wanted to give a kidney,&#8221; she said. &#8220;Down deep, I feel like I am not a good person, and if I gave a kidney, then I would prove to myself that I was a good person. 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