{"id":131778,"date":"2020-06-19T12:09:56","date_gmt":"2020-06-19T20:09:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=131778"},"modified":"2020-06-19T12:49:14","modified_gmt":"2020-06-19T20:49:14","slug":"the-gift-of-fear-and-other-survival-signals-that-protect-us-from-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=131778","title":{"rendered":"The Gift of Fear: And Other Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Gift-Fear-Survival-Signals-Violence\/dp\/0440226198\">Here are some highlights from this Gavin de Becker book<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>* You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations. <\/p>\n<p>* When free of judgment, we inherently respect the intuition of others. Sensing that someone else is in that special state of assessing hazard, we are alerted, just as when we see the cat or dog awaken suddenly from a nap and stare intently into a dark hallway. <\/p>\n<p>* Zen master, Shunryu Suzuki said, \u201cThe mind of the beginner is empty, free of the habits of the expert, ready to accept, to doubt, and open to all the possibilities.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>* We tend to give our full attention to risks that are beyond our control (air crashes, nuclear-plant disasters) while ignoring those we feel in charge of (dying from smoking, poor diet, car accidents), accidents), even though the latter are far more likely to harm us. <\/p>\n<p>* Nicholas Humphrey of Cambridge University explains that evolution gave us introspection specifically so we could \u201cmodel other human beings and therefore predict their behavior.\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are some highlights from this Gavin de Becker book: * You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations. * When free of judgment, we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=131778\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[237],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-131778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-crime"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t<!-- All in One SEO 4.9.10 - aioseo.com -->\n\t<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Here are some highlights from this Gavin de Becker book: * You have the gift of a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations. * When free of judgment, we inherently respect the intuition of others. 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