{"id":123131,"date":"2018-08-10T10:13:14","date_gmt":"2018-08-10T18:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=123131"},"modified":"2018-08-10T10:13:14","modified_gmt":"2018-08-10T18:13:14","slug":"the-jewish-urge-to-schmooze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=123131","title":{"rendered":"The Jewish Urge To Schmooze"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/FrameGames\/status\/1027966349870616576\">Frame Game Radio tweets<\/a>: 1. This is a thread about SCHMOOZING. I was at a business lunch today with a fellow Jew and it suddenly hit me &#8211; one reason for Jewish success is *The Jewish Urge To Schmooze.*<\/p>\n<p>2. Yes, I know I&#8217;ve developed a reputation for being a Jewish guy who relentlessly chronicles the abuses and corruption within the Jewish Affinity Network. But allow me to proudly explore a perfectly innocent and totally powerful aspect of Jewish success dynamics.<\/p>\n<p>3. I&#8217;ve noticed a pattern to human communications that differentiates &#8220;the median Gentile&#8221; and &#8220;the median Jew&#8221;. It&#8217;s not universal. It&#8217;s a bell-curve, where Jewish instincts appear, ON AVERAGE, to be 1-2 standard deviations more inclined to &#8220;schmooze&#8221; than Gentiles.<\/p>\n<p>4. First a definition of terms. The charitable definition is that schmoozing is &#8220;intimate, cozy gossip.&#8221; The cynical definition is that schmoozing is &#8220;manipulative sweet talk to get what you want.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>5. Now, THE MAGIC: SCHMOOZING IS NOT NETWORKING. Networking is professional. Schmoozing is personal. Networking makes formal pair-bonds. Schmoozing makes implied pair-bonds. Networking is a firm handshake. Schmoozing is whispering in your ear.<\/p>\n<p>6. I&#8217;ve deduced that schmoozing involves two critical mechanisms. The first is *VULNERABILITY*. The second is *BENIGN VIOLATION*. Let&#8217;s explore these two dynamics in turn:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Frame Game Radio tweets: 1. This is a thread about SCHMOOZING. I was at a business lunch today with a fellow Jew and it suddenly hit me &#8211; one reason for Jewish success is *The Jewish Urge To Schmooze.* 2. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=123131\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-123131","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jews"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/123131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=123131"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/123131\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":123132,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/123131\/revisions\/123132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=123131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=123131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=123131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}