{"id":119364,"date":"2017-12-15T13:10:20","date_gmt":"2017-12-15T21:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=119364"},"modified":"2017-12-15T13:10:20","modified_gmt":"2017-12-15T21:10:20","slug":"growing-up-hasidic-and-racist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=119364","title":{"rendered":"Growing Up Hasidic \u2014 and Racist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><A HREF=\"https:\/\/forward.com\/culture\/jewishness\/307190\/growing-up-hasidic-and-racist\/\">Shaindy Urman writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>In the ultra-Orthodox Hasidic community I grew up in, racism is a common aspect of life. It is seen as necessary in order to maintain the separation from goyim, or gentiles, and uphold the status of chosen nation (and as Hasidim, chosen Jews). As young children, we were educated about the horrors of the gentiles, who were out to destroy the pious Jews. \u201dIn every generation,\u201d we read aloud each Passover, \u201cthey [the other nations]stand ready to destroy us.\u201d We are further taught that Esau, who symbolizes gentiles, forever hates Jacob, the Jewish nation.<\/p>\n<p>As a young child I accepted what I was taught about the outside world without question. My exposure to non-Jews was limited to the few words I exchanged with the old Polish woman with the tattered kerchief on her head who cleaned our house once a week, and to passing by our black neighbors on the streets of Crown Heights. Any interactions with people outside the community were nonexistent \u2014 and unnecessary \u2014 since everything we ever needed was accessible through other Hasidic Jews just like us.<\/p>\n<p>As a female I was taught to think, act and appear modest and demure at all times, hidden behind a mechitzah, the partition in the synagogue, and by layers of clothing wherever I went. I couldn\u2019t talk or interact with boys past preschool, sing around men once I turned 12 or learn the intricate Jewish texts like the males in my family did. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shaindy Urman writes: In the ultra-Orthodox Hasidic community I grew up in, racism is a common aspect of life. 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