{"id":118365,"date":"2017-10-31T11:11:57","date_gmt":"2017-10-31T19:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=118365"},"modified":"2017-10-31T11:14:40","modified_gmt":"2017-10-31T19:14:40","slug":"my-story-with-leon-wieseltier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=118365","title":{"rendered":"‘My Story with Leon Wieseltier’"},"content":{"rendered":"

The only reason that men like Leon Wieseltier and Harvey Weinstein show an interest in pretty young women with pretensions is that they want to fuck them. It’s not because they care what these women think. No man cares what a woman thinks on any intellectual matter. Why not? Well, for example, see this essay by Karen Lehrman Bloch<\/a>: <\/p>\n

We talked a lot. About everything. He loved to talk. He found intelligence sexy before it was cool to find intelligence sexy. He also encouraged me a great deal. With Leon\u2019s guidance, I wrote three major essays on feminism for The New Republic, one a major cover story that led to a book contract. As an editor and a writer, he brought a fierce, distinctive intelligence to his work and never shied from an intellectual fight.<\/p>\n

Were our conversations tinged with sexual innuendo? Sometimes. But for me they fell into the realm of flirtation. Other men in the office flirted, too. Only once did something \u201chappen.\u201d He asked me if I wanted to watch a movie in his apartment. I said yes. He tried to kiss me; I said no. He stopped immediately. That moment never came up again, and never affected our relationship.<\/p>\n

We talked a lot about Judaism. I told him that right before my Bat Mitzvah, my family had moved to a big, sterile synagogue, which I hated. I hated it so much that I literally didn\u2019t set foot in a synagogue again for a decade. When he heard this story, he said, \u201cWe\u2019re going to synagogue this Shabbat.\u201d And we did. At one point during the services, I cried. Tears of sadness, joy, reconnection. Leon said nothing, just offered quiet support by sitting next to me. He let me reconnect privately and never took credit for it.<\/p>\n

Because of an email chain that I was not a part of, Wieseltier has now been Weinsteined. Shamed and disgraced. As far as I can tell, the worst he is being accused of is trying to plant an unwanted kiss and boorish behavior; perhaps there is more that we don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n

I respect\u2014in fact, insist on\u2014a woman\u2019s right to speak up. If someone finds something offensive, it\u2019s not for me to judge. But speaking out works both ways. I also have a story to tell, and part of that story is that I did experience harassment in the offices of TNR, but it didn\u2019t come from Leon, and it wasn\u2019t sexual.<\/p>\n

It was verbal bullying. One editor in particular would look for reasons to scream at me and at the other young women. His bullying was well known. We put up with it, but it wasn\u2019t pleasant.<\/p>\n

With Leon, there was a lot of laughter. No matter what was going on in the world, we laughed. And he listened. He listened to my ideas, to my thoughts about men, women, sex, anything and everything. There was no quid pro quo; there was no manipulation. Wieseltier was nothing like Weinstein.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

A former girlfriend of mine was deeply offended that a social justice mentor took her to dinner so he could try fuck her. She thought he was only interested in her ideas. <\/p>\n

Ladies, no man is interested in your ideas. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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