{"id":10774,"date":"2009-09-15T17:11:57","date_gmt":"2009-09-16T01:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10774"},"modified":"2009-09-15T17:11:57","modified_gmt":"2009-09-16T01:11:57","slug":"crying-to-the-rabbi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10774","title":{"rendered":"Crying To The Rabbi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of Jews in Pico-Robertson and around the world go crying to the rabbi that I&#8217;ve written something that has upset them.<\/p>\n<p>Mate, just because you can work yourself into tears while complaining about me is no evidence that moral right is on your side.<\/p>\n<p>Most of these folks have never raised their objections to me. They&#8217;re too scared to confront the source of their anguish, so they just go around complaining to those who will listen and sympathize and reinforce their anger.<\/p>\n<p>I remember one rabbi who was always complaining about me. I attended a lecture of his on the importance of confronting those who you feel have done you wrong.<\/p>\n<p>So after the lecture, I sent him an email suggesting we do just what he&#8217;d spoken about.<\/p>\n<p>He replied that he had no problem with me and gave me one of those generic rabbinic blessings.<\/p>\n<p>Coward.<\/p>\n<p>Porn stars have more integrity. Many of them weren&#8217;t afraid to let me have it.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve got a problem with something I&#8217;ve written, confront me about it in private in a courteous way that allows me to admit &#8212; when true &#8212; that I was wrong and let&#8217;s see what we can do about making repairs.<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee you&#8217;ll feel better.<\/p>\n<p>And it will make me a better person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of Jews in Pico-Robertson and around the world go crying to the rabbi that I&#8217;ve written something that has upset them. Mate, just because you can work yourself into tears while complaining about me is no evidence that &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10774\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,110],"tags":[3141,13401,18948,14059,700],"class_list":["post-10774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","category-rabbis","tag-anguish","tag-better-person","tag-moral-right","tag-porn-stars","tag-rabbi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10774","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10774"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10774\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10775,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10774\/revisions\/10775"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10774"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10774"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10774"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}