{"id":10774,"date":"2009-09-15T17:11:57","date_gmt":"2009-09-16T01:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10774"},"modified":"2009-09-15T17:11:57","modified_gmt":"2009-09-16T01:11:57","slug":"crying-to-the-rabbi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10774","title":{"rendered":"Crying To The Rabbi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of Jews in Pico-Robertson and around the world go crying to the rabbi that I&#8217;ve written something that has upset them.<\/p>\n<p>Mate, just because you can work yourself into tears while complaining about me is no evidence that moral right is on your side.<\/p>\n<p>Most of these folks have never raised their objections to me. They&#8217;re too scared to confront the source of their anguish, so they just go around complaining to those who will listen and sympathize and reinforce their anger.<\/p>\n<p>I remember one rabbi who was always complaining about me. I attended a lecture of his on the importance of confronting those who you feel have done you wrong.<\/p>\n<p>So after the lecture, I sent him an email suggesting we do just what he&#8217;d spoken about.<\/p>\n<p>He replied that he had no problem with me and gave me one of those generic rabbinic blessings.<\/p>\n<p>Coward.<\/p>\n<p>Porn stars have more integrity. Many of them weren&#8217;t afraid to let me have it.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve got a problem with something I&#8217;ve written, confront me about it in private in a courteous way that allows me to admit &#8212; when true &#8212; that I was wrong and let&#8217;s see what we can do about making repairs.<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee you&#8217;ll feel better.<\/p>\n<p>And it will make me a better person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of Jews in Pico-Robertson and around the world go crying to the rabbi that I&#8217;ve written something that has upset them. 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