{"id":10515,"date":"2009-09-07T17:11:13","date_gmt":"2009-09-08T01:11:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10515"},"modified":"2009-09-07T17:17:48","modified_gmt":"2009-09-08T01:17:48","slug":"if-you-really-want-to-do-kindness-you-should-sleep-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10515","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;If You Really Want To Do Kindness, You Should Sleep With Me&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m getting ready for the <A HREF=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/High_Holidays\">Days of Awe<\/a> by listening to Torah talks by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rabbiarikahn.com\">Rabbi Ari Kahn<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rabbiarikahn.com\/sholiday.php?id=15\">Here&#8217;s a groovy lecture on the evolving shofar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Kahn: &quot;Kindness is something we need to be careful about.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;We&#8217;re told that Avraham&#8217;s son Ishmael represented a fake kind of <em>chesed<\/em> (kindness). He tried to pass himself as the true son of Avraham but <em>chazal<\/em> (rabbis of the Talmud) tell us that Ishmael would go around and try to pick up women.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;The verse says he was full of laughter. The implication of laughter in the text is one of sexual impropriety, according to <em>chazal<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>&quot;Ishmael would use his father&#8217;s wonderful teachings of <em>chesed<\/em> as a pick-up line. He&#8217;d go around to women and say, &#8216;Didn&#8217;t Avraham teach us about the wonders of <em>chesed<\/em>? Well, if you really want to do <em>chesed<\/em>, you should sleep with me.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&quot;We believe in love your neighbor as yourself. We don&#8217;t believe in loving your neighbor&#8217;s spouse as yourself.&quot;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m getting ready for the Days of Awe by listening to Torah talks by Rabbi Ari Kahn. Here&#8217;s a groovy lecture on the evolving shofar. Rabbi Kahn: &quot;Kindness is something we need to be careful about.&quot; &quot;We&#8217;re told that Avraham&#8217;s &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10515\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14009],"tags":[12955,11020,16794,18811,18810,18812],"class_list":["post-10515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-r-ari-kahn","tag-days-of-awe","tag-rabbi-ari-kahn","tag-rabbi-kahn","tag-sexual-impropriety","tag-son-ishmael","tag-true-son"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10515"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10515\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10520,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10515\/revisions\/10520"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}