{"id":10367,"date":"2009-09-02T08:27:54","date_gmt":"2009-09-02T16:27:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10367"},"modified":"2009-09-02T08:28:48","modified_gmt":"2009-09-02T16:28:48","slug":"men-are-motivated-by-criticism-women-by-praise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10367","title":{"rendered":"Men Are Motivated By Criticism, Women By Praise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A male acquaintance of mine wrote a book on fat after he was yelled at by a stranger, &quot;Hey fatso, get out of the road.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Women don&#8217;t seem to be motivated the seem way. I&#8217;ve told a lot of women that they were fat and needed to work out. It&#8217;s never worked out. They haven&#8217;t appreciated my advice and they haven&#8217;t dropped the pounds.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m listening to &quot;The Way of the Superior Man&quot; by <A HREF=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Deida\">David Deida<\/a> (born Greenberg) and he explains the different ways that men and women are motivated. To motivate a woman to lose weight, for instance, say how beautiful she looks when she&#8217;s covered with sweat after working out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A male acquaintance of mine wrote a book on fat after he was yelled at by a stranger, &quot;Hey fatso, get out of the road.&quot; Women don&#8217;t seem to be motivated the seem way. I&#8217;ve told a lot of women &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10367\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[5200,32836,18739,18738,2717],"class_list":["post-10367","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-sex","tag-acquaintance","tag-david-deida","tag-different-ways","tag-fatso","tag-stranger"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10367","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10367"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10367\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10369,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10367\/revisions\/10369"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}