{"id":10334,"date":"2009-08-29T22:34:18","date_gmt":"2009-08-30T06:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10334"},"modified":"2009-08-29T22:34:51","modified_gmt":"2009-08-30T06:34:51","slug":"what-is-he-thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?p=10334","title":{"rendered":"What Is He Thinking?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.aolhealth.com\/healthy-living\/relationships\/how-men-think?icid=main|htmlws-main|dl3|link3|http%3A%2F%2Fwww.aolhealth.com%2Fhealthy-living%2Frelationships%2Fhow-men-think\">This piece on AOL nails it<\/a>: &quot;If a woman ever wonders what her boyfriend or husband thinks when he looks at  her, she can&#8217;t go wrong if she imagines this: He sees her as an endless abyss of  need. In general, men think that women are emotionally insatiable. The endless  abyss of need scares men to death, because they fear that they&#8217;ll never get the  things they want. 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