{"id":11,"date":"2006-12-26T19:13:42","date_gmt":"2006-12-27T03:13:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?page_id=11"},"modified":"2007-01-03T04:43:19","modified_gmt":"2007-01-03T12:43:19","slug":"dennis-prager","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?page_id=11","title":{"rendered":"Dennis Prager"},"content":{"rendered":"<table width=\"100%\" bgcolor=\"#ebedef\">\n<tr>\n<td bgcolor=\"#ccd0d6\" style=\"width: 3px\"><\/td>\n<td align=\"left\"><!-- BEGIN PRAGER LINKS --><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><font size=\"0\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/indexpindex.html\">Index<\/a>          | <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/indexp2.html\">Prager          Biography<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dennisprager.com\">Prager&#8217;s Official          Web Site<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/indexp1.html\">Disclaimer<\/a> |           <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/pessays.html\">Excerpts From Prager          Essays and Speeches<\/a><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"0\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/pmisc.html\">Prager Misc<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/lukeford.net\/ppapers.html\">Newspaper          Articles on Prager<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/indexpindexr.html\">Prager&#8217;s          Radio Show<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/indexp271.html\">Is          Gossip Good?<\/a>| <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/pt.html\">Rabbi          Joseph Telushkin<\/a> |  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/plinks.html\">Prager          Links<\/a><\/font><\/p>\n<p><!-- END PRAGER LINKS --><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<p>12\/24\/06<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\">Dennis Prager Speaks To <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ou.org\/ou\/event_more\/west_coast_convention\/\">Orthodox          Union<\/a><\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/dennisprager2.wav\">Dennis          Prager (.wav)<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/ravadlerstein.wav\">Rabbi          Yitzchok Adlerstein responds<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/dennisprager3.wav\">Dennis          Prager responds<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/dennisprager4.wav\">Dennis          Prager takes questions<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/dennisprager5.wav\">Dennis          Prager<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/lisaaiken.wav\">Rabbi          Tzvi Hersh Weinreb, Lisa Aiken speak on the yeshiva curriculum.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/shlomoriskin.wav\">Rabbi          Shlomo Riskin: &#8220;A View From Israel: Diaspora Jewry&#8217;s Influence on          the State in the 21st Century.&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/michaelbroyde.wav\">Rabbi          Michael Broyde: &#8220;Interacting With Noachides, Gentiles &#038; Pagans          Who Love Us.&#8221;<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos3\/michaelbroyde1.wav\">Rabbi          Broyde takes questions.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>9 a.m. Room is full (about 80 persons) for Rabbi Riskin&#8217;s talk. He says          Iran won&#8217;t nuke Jerusalem because it won&#8217;t damage the Al Aksa mosque on          the temple mount.<\/p>\n<p>10 a.m. Lisa Aiken says Judaism is primarily about having a relationship          with God.<\/p>\n<p>Does anyone aside from a few eccentric intellectuals believe that? I&#8217;ve          met few religious Jews who claimed to have a relationship with God. It&#8217;s          just one of those things that speakers say but few people do.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like saying, &#8220;Jews don&#8217;t think they&#8217;re better than anybody          else.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I get that obligatory disclaimer every time choseness is introduced.          Yes, Jews are God&#8217;s chosen people but Jews don&#8217;t believe they are any          better than anybody else.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s nonsense. Of course Jews believe they are better than everybody          else, just as every religious and national group thinks it is number one.          The only difference is that many non-Jews believe Jews are special, and          sometimes hate them for it.<\/p>\n<p>This old man (I think it was the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Images\/photos\/ga1106\/PICT0019.JPG\">Rabbi          Emmanuel<\/a> pictured here with Richard Joel last month) dressed like          a Hasid makes a loud, passionate and incomprehensible speech complaining          that he&#8217;s been forbidden from passing out his flyers, which he does anyway          over the next few hours to anyone he thinks is important (Michael Broyde,          Dennis Prager, etc).<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb does a good job keeping the yeshiva curriculum          discussion moving.<\/p>\n<p>11:30 a.m. Rabbi Yitzchok Lowenbraun lectures on why our youth are leaving          Orthodoxy. He says it is not for intellectual reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Michael Broyde says it is for intellectual reasons. That the kids          see irreconcilable differences between Torah and science. That &#8220;being          happy and feeling good&#8221; is an insufficient reason to stay Jewish.<\/p>\n<p>I wonder how many people leave Orthodox Judaism because so many of its          practicioners are fat, slovenly, and unattractive?<\/p>\n<p>A YULA boys school teacher says the reasons were intellectual a century          ago but now kids are just giving into their lustful desires.<\/p>\n<p>Fundamentalist religion attracts a disproportionate number of kooks and          many of them are dying to speak up and bore us to tears.<\/p>\n<p>Much of the room has nodded off. The sages command us to follow the majority,          so I also nod off.<\/p>\n<p>I walk out and past Rabbi Daniel Korobkin posing for photographs.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Now, let&#8217;s vary the background,&#8221; says the photographer.<\/p>\n<p>I make eye contact with a leading Los Angeles rabbi in the hallway. He          stares at me, says hello, and then backs into the ladies room.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Wrong room!&#8221; I warn.<\/p>\n<p>Because I&#8217;ve studied Torah, I choose to believe that the rabbi went into          the ladies room for the best of reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Still, my soul is troubled. Why do so many of our rabbis go off the derech          and into the ladies room? Is it for intellectual reasons or are they just          following their lustful desires?<\/p>\n<p>I listen to Rabbi Broyde&#8217;s instructions on interacting with gentiles.          I know more about dating shiksas than this rabbi. I should be giving this          talk.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, the leading Orthodox decider of Jewish law in          the last half of the 20th Century, characterized American government as          grounded in righteousness (he said that in Hebrew, much more impressive          sounding). He said we should offer profound fidelity to secular American          law.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Broyde says we have to careful in selecting those who will do inter-faith          dialogue. &#8220;I think much harder before speaking to The New York Times          than I do to the Jewish press.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Do we want to encourage abortion laws along the lines of what Christians          want that could possibly cause a mother to lose her life in a case where          Jewish law would prescribe an abortion.<\/p>\n<p>Jewish law is more concerned with the life of the mother than that of          the fetus.<\/p>\n<p>Standing up for religious values that are not ours, such as animal sacrifice          by cults in Florida, protects our right to practice our religion.<\/p>\n<p>A fat hippie teacher from Shalhevet wonders how Rabbi Broyde can give          so much honor to American law when it allowed such terrible miscarriages          of justice in the cases of <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jonathan_Pollard\">Jonathan          Pollard<\/a> and the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.law.umkc.edu\/faculty\/projects\/ftrials\/rosenb\/ROSENB.HTM\">Rosenbergs<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t see Jonathan Pollard case as a terrible miscarriage of          justice. Nor the Rosenberg case.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The teacher yells at Broyde who replies, &#8220;You asked for my opinion.          I gave it to you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That quiets the yelping masses.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Alan Kalinsky (West Coast director of the O.U.) holds the full          house (about 250 persons) hostage for about 15 minutes to do housekeeping          items and bestow some pointless award (a yad aka Torah pointer) on an          O.U. functionary (president Steve Savitsky).<\/p>\n<p>Finally, we&#8217;re allowed the main event &#8212; Dennis Prager vs. Rabbi Yitzchok          Adlerstein.<\/p>\n<p>The crowd is thrilled to hear Prager. <a href=\"http:\/\/dennisprager.townhall.com\/\">His          billboard &#8220;Just Right&#8221; is all over L.A. for his radio show.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Daniel Korobkin gives the introduction: &#8220;My 21-year old son          was looking over the program and his eyes perked up when he saw Dennis          Prager&#8217;s name. &#8216;I&#8217;m going to that one.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve all been put in cherem [excommunication] for being here          today,&#8221; says Rabbi Korobkin.<\/p>\n<p>Prager is not Orthodox and a lot of people are upset about him being          invited to an O.U. event.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Korobkin says the O.U. got a telephone message from a local leader          of left-wing Orthodoxy complaining about Prager&#8217;s inclusion. That Prager          was intolerant of other religions because he wants Muslim congressman          Keith Ellison to take his swearing in oath on a Bible (in addition to          the Koran).<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Korobkin: &#8220;The feeling at the O.U. is that we are sufficiently          confident that Torah is emet [truth] and that what we have is emet and          whatever deficiencies we have&#8230;we have to be prepared to look at someone          pointing out our flaws&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis wears a light blue shirt, an orange and blue striped tie, and          a brown jacket. &#8220;I was the one who opened the media to Muslims.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That would come as news to the hundreds of journalists who wrote stories          about Muslims and put them on the air (radio and television) before Prager          ever got a radio show.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If we Jews think we are secure in America because of the constitution          and not because of the Bible, we are fools.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Of all the ethnic groups in America, we are the most foolish.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The great majority of serious Jews are Orthodox.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;On the great moral issues of life, you and I are in agreement 99%          of the time&#8230; Because we both believe the Torah comes from God.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The average Orthodox rabbi and Reform rabbi share almost nothing          [in values].&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You turned out to be right&#8230; I could not argue against it &#8212; the          ordination of women. The adding of vast numbers of females to the Jewish          and Christian clergy has not helped those religions. Women bring gifts          that are different than what clerical leadership need. Women prefer compassion          to standards and clergy have to prefer standards to compassion.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Faith matters a great deal. When I grew up [in Orthodoxy], everything          was halakah. About once a year, one of the rabbonim might have a hashkafa          shiur where God might be mentioned. In my Orthodox world, the question          was never what does God want. It was, what&#8217;s the halakah?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s hard to argue that God does not women to be able to marry          if their husbands refuse a get [divorce]. Why even ask what does God want          if my only question is, what is the halakah?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My oldest son [David], in a deep rebellion, has decided to become          an Orthodox rabbi.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My brother [Kenny], who is Orthodox, says to me, &#8216;I should&#8217;ve been          Reform. Then my kids would be Orthodox.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Eruv\">eruv<\/a> is baloney.          It is a legal fiction. We&#8217;re going to fool ourselves that it is ok to          wheel our kids to shul.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t believe that God wants a woman [on Shabbos] to be under          house arrest because there&#8217;s not a string around the city.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I believe that God doesn&#8217;t want us to look silly in the eyes of          the nations. The L.A. Times article [on the Venice eruv] makes Orthodox          Judaism look silly. You can&#8217;t blame the L.A. Times.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I believe that God wants Pesach [Passover] to be seven days [rather          than the eight days now observed by traditional Jews in the diaspora].          That&#8217;s what he wrote. The Torah&#8217;s from God.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t believe how several Jews have the chutzpah to answer their cell          phones during the lecture.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The siddur [prayer book] is too long. The maxzor [High Holiday          prayer book] is too long. Nobody understands the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.piyut.org.il\/chosen12\/english\/\">piyutim<\/a>          [which make a Rosh Hashanah morning prayer service last over six hours].&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then I have Orthodox friends tell me, &#8216;Dennis, at our hashkama          minyan, we do everything in 90 minutes.&#8217; Then you have to say the prayers          so fast they become gibberish. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.evelynwood.com.au\/\">Evelyn          Wood<\/a> [speed reader] grew up Orthodox.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I believe that the Torah wants Pesach to be seven days because          it recreates creation. Judaism stands on two pillars &#8212; creation and the          Exodus from Egypt. When you make it eight days, you lose the whole point          of what HaShem wanted.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Are we a kiddish HaShem in the way we kill animals? We had the          most humane way to kill animals&#8230;but do we today? I don&#8217;t think so.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Kosher veal? It&#8217;s killed in a painless way but it is raised in          a painful way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wish I could say that halakah [Jewish law] makes people good.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis relays a story from Rabbi Shlomo Riskin who interviewed various          rabbis to become the head of his yeshiva. All of them said that if they          ordered a shaver in the mail and the company accidentally sent an extra          one, they would keep it, as there was nothing wrong in keeping such from          a Gentile. They could even quote some Jewish text to support it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Here&#8217;s a case of halakah making people worse.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My dad has been Orthodox his whole life. Even though he enlisted          in World War II, he noticed all these yeshivot popping up in New York          during World War II so Jews could avoid service in the armed forces by          studying to become rabbis. All these goyim are fighting Hitler and all          these frum Jews are enrolling in yeshiva to not fight Hitler.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The finest Jews I have known have tended to be Orthodox.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis complained about Orthodox Jews who don&#8217;t greet gentiles on the          Sabbath.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Reform conference recently passed a resolution that Washington          D.C. should become a state. There&#8217;s a pressing Jewish issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Korobkin: &#8220;I&#8217;ve never been so glad to see Rabbi Adlerstein.          Better you than me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rav Adlerstein makes a response (and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cross-currents.com\/archives\/2006\/12\/25\/my-debate-with-dennis-prager\/\">blogs          about it later<\/a>). &#8220;If I score a couple of points for the Ribbono          Shel Olam, Baruch HaShem.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I applaud the O.U. for allowing this despite everyone&#8217;s lock-jaw.          We do have a tradition of being open to criticism.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He recommends an article by Judy Bleich in the Orthodox Forum on Reform          doing away with selichot. He says that shorter prayer services don&#8217;t attract          more people to shul.<\/p>\n<p>Rav Adlerstein says the lack of greeting gentiles was not because such          persons were Orthodox but because they were from New York.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Korobkin says that if there&#8217;s anything that&#8217;s bothering you, seek          out your rabbi and ask. &#8220;There are answers to all these questions.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis: &#8220;When I first met Rabbi Adlerstein, he was not the same.          He had to get halakic permission to go on Religion on the Line (KABC)          and dialogue with non-Jewish clergy. Today he&#8217;s a leader in Jewish life          in talking to Christians and meeting with them and hugging them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Adlerstein: &#8220;Just the men.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis: &#8220;The tradition with Conservative Judaism is not the non-fidelity          to halakah. They are overwhelmingly faithful to halaka&#8230; The problem          with Conservatism is that they don&#8217;t believe the Torah is divine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When Prager speaks, my face angles up and to the side like a puppy towards          his master.<\/p>\n<p>Dennis says it is wrong that we have to stand during <a href=\"http:\/\/judaism.about.com\/od\/yomkippu1\/ss\/yk_prayers_9.htm\">Neilah<\/a>          (and much of the High Holiday prayer services). &#8220;If you had to stand          during my talk, all you&#8217;d think about is when you could sit down.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re stuck with standing up more than any other religion.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You can&#8217;t say anything in Orthodox life that something rabbinic          is a bad idea.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you want to become effective at outreach, learn from Chabad in two          ways:<\/p>\n<p>One. Chabad doesn&#8217;t ration its love for Jews on the level of the Jews&#8217;          observance. Chabad seeks to make Jews Jewish while the mitnagdim (non-Hasidic          Orthodox) seek to make them Orthodox.<\/p>\n<p>Two. Chabad emissaries are happy. &#8220;A shaliach [emissary] who is          not happy is sent back to Brooklyn. A rebettzin who is not good looking          is sent back to Brooklyn.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The best advertisement for religion is when its practicioners are          happy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dennis says that only two or three people in his yeshiva class did not          cheat.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Joseph Telushkin was a Republican ten years before I was.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A young man gets up and says how disgusted he is that Prager was invited          to speak and to criticize the Orthodox. About 15 people applaud him.<\/p>\n<p>Dennis: &#8220;Reform does not invite me (because of my politics). Conservative          does. I spoke at the Rabbinical Assembly convention.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My parents went to my Stephen S. Wise minyan Saturday morning for          my youngest son&#8217;s bar mitzvah. They loved it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Korobkin says Dennis Prager thinks more like an Orthodox Jew than          most Orthodox Jews.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the program, a man loudly pleads with Dennis to daven mincha          with them. Prager agrees.<\/p>\n<p>As for me, I can&#8217;t wait to get home to watch some football.<\/p>\n<p>Gadi Pickholz emails (israelfrac@gmail.com) from the Israel Fathers Rights          Advocacy Council:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Did anyone point out in the discussion of why youth depart orthodoxy            that it is neither attraction of secularism nor intellectualism, but            the recognition that orthodoxy today as practiced today as devolved            into nothing more than empty ritual masking rampant materialism and            socioeconomic climbing? This is clearly the primary justification heard            in Israel for American aliya from parents &#8212; fleeing the Affluenza of            American Orthodoxy before one loses the children entirely the other            critical issue, which you hinted at in an earlier post but also did            not pursue, is that with the loss of all Rabbinic leadership in America            to the black hat chareidim (Steven Riskin could no longer exist in America,            as an example, much less be Rosh Yeshiva of my daughter&#8217;s program training            female advocates for the Jerusalem Bet Din) there is simply no longer            any connection between the true values and hashkafa of the modern orthodox            families and their Rabbinic leadership, particularly educational leadership.            This seems to be the problem not only at Valley Torah, but also at YULA            girls in particular.<\/p>\n<p>There really is no school in LA that would support my daughter electing            to do army service over being a nice jewish girl volunteer (American            girls dont do that either when they come to Israel, but remain cloistered            in the safety of a charedi seminar) before studying far more than simply            talmud in a female hesder program designed to create not only female            advocates for Bet Din but eventually female Dayanim as well. Rabbi Rakefet&#8217;s            daughter, who is a prominent Jerusalem attorney and to&#8217;en rabbani in            bet din, could not be tolerated in any educational environment for girls            in LA today. Rabbi Rakefet openly states all the time that none of us            could practice Judaism and raise our children in the American community            of today, and that this is a much stronger pull for all of us than simply            Zionism once we realize that American orhtodoxy has gone, to use his            football field-goal analogy, &#8220;no good, way w-i-i-i-de to the right&#8221;            This is a far greater turn-off, but no one can express it publicly as            no one but the charedim want the career in chinuch in America today.            This divergence in values grows annually until reaching a breaking point.<\/p>\n<p>I agree that you should be addressing these issues, because everyone            else is simply too scared given the Talibanization of American orthodox            leadership to even loyal dissent.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps it is because, like the catholic church and mafia, much of            orthodoxy (and particularly charedi orthodoxy, someone has to be willing            to state that openly) have completely divorced ritual observance from            basic morality. Our children are not foolish, and comprehend that scandal            far better than we &#8211;they have not yet invested so much time, effort            and money in the system. The cataracts will be removed from our eyes            eventually; we can simply elect how painful a process it will be.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.townhall.com\/TalkRadio\/Show.aspx?RadioShowID=3&#038;ContentGuid=1adba782-5b37-42ad-a686-cb1bda5d00c5\"><font size=\"+1\">Dennis          Prager Interviews Neil Strauss About Picking Up Women<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Openers, negging, proof of social status.<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\">What Do Terrorists Want?<\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.townhall.com\/TalkRadio\/Show.aspx?RadioShowID=3&#038;ContentGuid=0f6f1e3c-679b-487c-b773-04759dd99a06\">About          ten times in this interview<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/Default.htm\">Dennis          Prager<\/a> lets his guest known about ten times whether or not he agrees          with her. The Harvard professor, like most guests, evinces no interest          in whether or not the host agrees with her.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/essays\/contents\/interviewing.htm\">bad          interviewing technique<\/a> by Prager.<\/p>\n<p>8\/22\/06<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.townhall.com\/TalkRadio\/Show.aspx?RadioShowID=3&#038;ContentGuid=70bf8618-d40d-441b-941a-874e27833c28\">Dennis          Prager&#8217;s step-daughter Anya married in the Napa Valley Aug 20<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/Default.htm\">Dennis Prager<\/a>:          &#8220;The dominant feature of a society [with little marriage] is secularism.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Secular life is just boring. Imagine saying, &#8216;Let&#8217;s all get together          in Chicago because Jerry and I have decided to live for each other.'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Religious life is communal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nothing has the same clout as saying I was at your wedding.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I remember chatting with a cute young blonde at a Jewish singles event          at the Century Club in Century City in 1994. I was telling her about Dennis          Prager. She said, &#8220;That&#8217;s my dad.&#8221; It was Anya, the only time          I met her.<\/p>\n<p>8\/11\/06<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/Default.htm\"><font size=\"+1\">Dennis          Prager<\/font><\/a><font size=\"+1\">&#8216;s Happiness Hour: Maturity<\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.townhall.com\/TalkRadio\/Show.aspx?RadioShowID=3&#038;ContentGuid=162194f5-973f-4c4d-add9-e2fe315a9d19\">Guest            Dr. Steven Marmer, member of the clinical faculty at the UCLA School            of Psychiatry and psychiatrist in private practice in Brentwood, CA            outlines what it means to be mature<\/a>. He asks three key questions            of his patients: how much anxiety can you tolerate without having to            do something destructive to yourself or others; how much are you able            to live in the present; and do you like undertaking obligations.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As he did with Prager&#8217;s TV show 12 years ago, Alan Estrin has improved          Prager&#8217;s product since taking over as producer (about two years ago).          A longtime friend of Prager&#8217;s, Alan might have more strength to push Prager          to not repeat himself as much, to get adequate sleep, to not spend time          on esoteric subjects such as stereo equipment and favorite cigars.<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\">If you&#8217;re thinking of marrying, part 1 <\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/Default.htm\">Dennis Prager<\/a>          <a href=\"http:\/\/www.worldnetdaily.com\/news\/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=47762\">writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>4. Does the person have a number of good friends and at least one very            close friend of the same sex?<\/p>\n<p>It is a bad sign if the person you are thinking of marrying does not            have good friends (including of long duration) of the same sex. Something            is very wrong. This alone should rule out the person from consideration.            A woman who cannot hold female friends and a man who cannot hold male            friends have issues that will probably sink your marriage.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><font size=\"+1\">If you&#8217;re thinking of marrying, part 2<\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.worldnetdaily.com\/news\/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=47878\">Dennis          Prager writes<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>10. Is the person unhappy?<\/p>\n<p>Having written a best-selling book on happiness and lectured on the            subject on all seven continents, I am tempted write a book-length book            explanation of just this question. Suffice it to say that the importance            of marrying an essentially happy person cannot be exaggerated. If you            are basically happy, do not think for a moment that you can make an            unhappy person happy by marrying him or her. On the contrary, the ability            of the unhappy to make the happy unhappy is far greater than the ability            of the happy to make the unhappy happy.<\/p>\n<p>12. What do people you respect think of the person you&#8217;re considering            marrying?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dennisprager.townhall.com\/Blog.aspx\"><font size=\"+1\">Dennis          Prager&#8217;s Blog<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s done by his radio producer Allen Estrin.<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.townhall.com\/Columnists\/DennisPrager\/2006\/07\/18\/the_middle_east_conflict_is_hard_to_solve_but_easy_to_explain\">Dennis          Prager&#8217;s Latest Column<\/a><\/font><\/p>\n<p>Prager writes 7\/19\/06:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Arab and other Muslim enemies of Israel (for the easily confused,            this does not mean every Arab or every Muslim) want Israel destroyed.            That is why there is a Middle East conflict. Everything else is commentary.<\/p>\n<p>Those who deny this and ascribe the conflict to other reasons, such            as &#8220;Israeli occupation,&#8221; &#8220;Jewish settlements,&#8221; a &#8220;cycle of violence,&#8221;            &#8220;the Zionist lobby&#8221; and the like, do so despite the fact that Israel&#8217;s            enemies regularly announce the reason for the conflict. The Iranian            regime, Hizbollah, Hamas and the Palestinians &#8212; in their public opinion            polls, in their anti-Semitic school curricula and media, in their election            of Hamas, in their support for terror against Israeli civilians in pre-1967            borders &#8212; as well as their Muslim supporters around the world, all            want the Jewish state annihilated.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Rob Barnett writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Reading Dennis Prager&#8217;s latest column has a surreal texture to it,            like entering Alice in Wonderland where a word means exactly what DP            wants it to mean, nothing more and nothing less.<\/p>\n<p>In this column, he ascribes the cause of the Arab\/Israeli conflict            to Israel&#8217;s Arab\/Mulsim enemies seeking to destroy it. This dovetails            nicely with his usual glib, one-line description about the conflict:            Israel wants peace, the Palestinians want to destroy Israel.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with this depiction of the situation is that it is deceptive,            manipulative, and completely disingenuous. Since DP is obviously a knowledgeable            and intelligent person, one can be forgiven for assuming that this stance            of his must somehow be malicious and deliberate.<\/p>\n<p>Suppose we go back in time to the pre-1948 era for a moment, as the            Arab\/Jewish conflict over Palestine was gaining steam. Couldn&#8217;t we,            fairly and accurately, say that all the Arabs wanted was to be left            alone in peace, while Zionist Jewry&#8217;s top priority wasn&#8217;t peace but            the decimation of Arab Palestine, or as much of it as possible, and            replacing it with a Jewish state? Since that is an obvious truism, based            on the historical record and the clearly recorded comments and goals            of figures such as David Ben Gurion, Chaim Weitzmann, Menachem Begin,            Yitzchak Shamir, and Abraham Stern, why does DP omit it?<\/p>\n<p>So when we look at the big picture, we see that it was Zionism&#8217;s lack            of desire for peace and untiring goal of wiping out Arab Palestine that            is at the root of the problem. And if Zionism was dedicated to, and            largely achieved, the dissolution of Arab Palestine, why is DP so upset,            and by what right is he upset, when some Palestinians want to return            the favor and do the same to Jewish Israel?<\/p>\n<p>What DP serves to us is the same, usual, tired Israeli apologetics            that cannot hold up to the light of facts and exacting moral reasoning.            He apparently believes that mistreating Arabs, when hundreds were murdered            and over half a million were effectively uprooted and dispossessed,            is moral or at least acceptable, but when anything remotely comparable            is done to Jews, it&#8217;s the most monumental moral transgression to ever            befall humanity.<\/p>\n<p>The hard facts remain in spite of such silly propaganda: in the 1947-49            era, a minority of Palestine&#8217;s inhabitants, mostly non-citizens, shot            their way into power in defiance of the sentiments of the decisive majority            of its inhabitants, murdering innocent Arab civilians and effectively            exiling some 600,000 other civilians because they didn&#8217;t happen to be            Jewish. Every day that has gone by since then when Israelis and American            Jews fail to recognize and admit to the facts and wrongdoing of 1947-49            is a day that they don&#8217;t want peace but a mere cessation of hostilities            that suits their interests.<\/p>\n<p>We can either continue to pile up pyrrhic military victories and body            counts or we can take a courageous step back, admit to and repent of            our wrongdoing, and seek genuine peace. That&#8217;s why there is no peace:            because neither of these paths is easy. But one of them is right.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><font size=\"+1\">Whatever Happened To Michelle Goldberg?<\/font><\/p>\n<p>7\/11\/06<\/p>\n<p>She profiled me for a couple of pieces (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/luke_ford\/clips\/clips1.html\">one          in Speak magazine<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/luke_ford\/clips\/clips3.html\">one          in Salon<\/a>) that were published in 1999.<\/p>\n<p>Michelle was a delight. I wanted to talk to her all day.<\/p>\n<p>I remember chatting to my friends about how adorable she was. A graduate          of U.C. Berkeley (I believe), she had a 14 year old&#8217;s voice and manner          that made you want to open up to her.<\/p>\n<p>I found she&#8217;s now <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/michelle-goldberg\/whats-the-matter-with-ba_b_24133.html\">blogging          on HuffingtonPost.com<\/a>, where I found this bio:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Michelle Goldberg is the author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0393060942\/sr=8-1\/qid=1152644024\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/002-9254109-3398437?ie=UTF8\">Kingdom            Coming: The Rise of Christian Nationalism<\/a>. Esquire described Kingdom            Coming as &#8220;an important work of investigative journalism, exposing as            it does a mass movement with &#8216;a vision of reality utterly at odds with            that of the secular world,&#8217; that would use its power to impose a religious            worldview on a diverse country.&#8221; Publishers Weekly called it &#8220;an impressive            piece of lucid journalism&#8221; and a &#8220;carefully researched and riveting            treatise.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Goldberg is a contributing writer at <a href=\"http:\/\/dir.salon.com\/topics\/michelle_goldberg\/index.html\">Salon.com<\/a>,            and her work has appeared in Rolling Stone, The New York Observer, The            UK Guardian, In These Times, Newsday and many other newspapers nationwide.            She lives in Brooklyn, New York.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>July 11, I catch her on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lukeford.net\/Dennis\/Default.htm\">Dennis          Prager<\/a>&#8216;s show discussing her new book. She now has an adult voice          and manner as she argues her case. But I&#8217;m sure she can still be as adorable          as a kid when she works her interviewing magic.<\/p>\n<p>I find it interesting when those of us who can be charming interviewers          are called upon to argue out our ideas. It&#8217;s hard to do both things well.          I have no doubt that Michelle and I are better interviewers than pundits.          If you are primarily devoted to promoting your ideas, you&#8217;re rarely going          to be a good listener. If you are primarily devoted to listening, you          are unlikely to be a good polemicist.<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"+1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/cjnews.com\/viewarticle.asp?id=9690\">Torah          is an instruction book for life, Prager says<\/a> <\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>TORONTO &#8211; If Judaism can<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Index | Prager Biography | Prager&#8217;s Official Web Site | Disclaimer | Excerpts From Prager Essays and Speeches Prager Misc | Newspaper Articles on Prager | Prager&#8217;s Radio Show | Is Gossip Good?| Rabbi Joseph Telushkin | Prager Links 12\/24\/06 &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/?page_id=11\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":4,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-11","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/11\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lukeford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}